My husband and I have stopped having sex after two months of marriage

I'm a 22-year-old housewife and had good [ندعوك للتسجيل في المنتدى أو التعريف بنفسك لمعاينة هذا الرابط] for two months

with my new husband, but we have rarely had sex since.

He used to get very erotic but that has lessened,

and his hectic work hours are the obvious reason.

Now when he cuddles me, if I caress him back he feels ticklish

wherever I touch him. I also have experienced pain in my vagina,

as if I have a cut there. It burns so badly that I have to

either bear it or just stop. My frustration levels are so high

I shout at him and he gets really sad.


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As a couple you have several significant problems

that need to be addressed.

Feeling frustrated is no excuse for shouting. Instead,

calmly express your feelings and ask your husband to work on

these issues with you and/or seek some therapeutic help.

His ticklishness may be due to sexual anxiety,

so try to help him feel safer.



Discuss exactly what it is like for him when you make various kinds of

physical contact, and try to discover what kinds of caresses

are comfortable for him. For a while, you may even need to

ask his permission before you touch him anywhere,


to slowly build his trust. Start with non-genital touches

and only approach his penis once

he has become tolerant of other kinds of strokes.


Immediately seek a medical evaluation for your vaginal problem

(if it's not physiologically based you may have developed [ندعوك للتسجيل في المنتدى أو التعريف بنفسك لمعاينة هذا الرابط],

which requires sexual therapy.